There are some things in the game that I believe are so fundamental that they need a LOT of illumination. I know that most of the isssues on this board deal with golf-swing, but this thread deals specifically with the mental game. Meanwhile the responses are basically aimed at "swing" solutions for what's in the head. Sorry, but that's like blaming the horse for a muddy track.
I know that bantamben1 asked for "stories," not solutions, but I'll offer something at least pertinent to understanding the problem first. It's a paragraph from one of my newsletters.
"Yips is what you get from anxiety in situations in which one feels personally threatened (tight tee shots, bad lies, important short putts, etc.) and is a result of some form of inward, personally experienced pressure emanating from long ago. It tends to isolate itself in chronic relationship to some kind of physical movement (as in putting or swinging a club). Choking is also a result, but not quite as severe as yips. It is more processive than yips and falls more into the realm of playing the game rather than swinging a club. It can, if unabated lead to yips, but it is more identified with subtle psychological distraction than with physical disability (starting to think about results, worry over something in the swing, etc). Yips shows up as a physical manifest. Choking causes a person to loose mental tracking and have breakdowns in thinking and planning, with either a flood of thoughts or an outright vacuum. Yips changes the motor activity. Choking may look like it changes the motors, but it only binds or over-clutches the steering wheel."
You can find the rest in my archives at
http://clearkeygolf.com
Apologies if this is considered "thread-jacking."