Gay Weddings.... my opinion

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Mathew

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Over recent times there has been something of a push towards homosexuals being allowed a "civil union" to have the same legal stature as the traditional wedding between two hetrosexual people.

I think to truely answer this question you have to first of all ask the question to whether being a homosexual in todays society is still acceptable to the morals of that society since that is what freedom (in real terms) means - the ability to do what you want within the laws and morals set by the law in the country.

If anyone here has ever known people going through the transformation from supposedly straight to gay is quite a pathetic process and one in my own personal experience seen three times. It is my full honest opinion that these people were all phychologically bruised in some form or another and seeked attention to boost their low esteem.

Yet one by one they found a friend 'somewhere' that they met (someone gay) and discovered the amount of attention and popularity recieved. Suddenly they started tell feelings, that I honestly believe were never in their head before, about sexual tendancies towards the same sex. Eventually they get excited about being different, something out of the norm which is a thing to heal their very low self esteem.

I was open-minded as a teenager and still stayed friends with them despite my own beliefs. Over a period they began to put on certain camp traits 'a stupid walk', 'gay voices' and of course 'the floppy hands'. Apart from these being bugging and totally self-created, this isn't what bothered me. It was the way they rewrote their entire lives into a homosexual story. I remember two of them having relationships with girls and the way that they did love them. They deny this... infact they both rewrote it to a picture of "I was just wasn't admitting it to myself and that was when they knew" horsecrap. They even start believing it despite what I know for a fact to be lies (and I could write a whole summary page on this alone).

Over time I grew to despise them. From the people they were and I really miss them as friends but they are no longer the same person because of the traits they enact. I grew tired of them wanting to broadcast to the world their behaviour because it is their ticket to friends, shallow and superficial friends that want a token but still friends. If that is what they aspire to have as company then thats their choice. I grew tired of the fact I couldn't have a normal non-gay chat. I grew tired so many things. No one could say I did not try to understand but I found them very transparent and one of my virtues/pains is total honesty and eventually told them my opinion of what they were.

Many have a myth of being gay like an infliction, something you are born to, something that is or is not. I majorly disagree and wish to dispell. These people were normal, a little emotionally lacking but normal. The myth of infliction of homosexuality as if not by choice is plain dumb. These people all had emotional problems and they see it as a way of becoming exciting and getting popularity to their low self-esteemed presence to find a boost that sadly they lacked and just don't have the inhabitions that many have on the fact their partner is of same sex.

After a short period of time after I had let go any contact with these people, I ended up getting raped by a homosexual. It is one thing I blame alot for my emotional scars and self-isolation from society. I developed a hatred for people gay in general because they evicted me of people I cared about and were good friends with before their transformation and the most horrific emotional scar anyone could ever carry which I have never really 100% recovered from. I am only here today because of one person - my fianc'e, who I hold with the most love that anyone could ever hold towards a person.

I have to therefore, out my experiences with people of homosexual behaviour, feel that all gay activity should be discouraged in society and legally should not support gay bonding of any kind. The laws IMO are suffient enough to let what happens behind closed doors go on. Sex education of school should never provide any information at any time towards homosexuality.
 
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I couldn't have said it any better,totally agree. I had a similar experience as a 12 yr old. I was doing yard work for a outstanding citizen and deacon of my church,he was taking me home and tried to grab me. I jumped out of the car while it was moving and refused to get back in.I found out later that i wasn't the only one he tried this with, he eventually was removed from the church as a deacon.

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Boy this is a touchy debate. Like I said in another thread, i do actually have some very good friends who are gay. I was raised raised in church. I was taught that sin is sin and that God does not loive sin yet he loves all sinners. To me, being homosexual or having a gay wedding is no more sin than abusing our bodys be it through alcohol, drugs, overreating or sloth. I was raised to believe that my God is a loving and forgiving God. That he is capable of forgiving all sin. I also was raised to believe that if we are to judge others, we first must look upon ourselves and cast judgement. I am no angel and i am definitely not without sin of my own. Therefore I do not cast judgement on other people. Matthew and i had words on this very forum and I said some very unchristian things to him. i have since apologized to him and we have moved beyond that. To me, that is no more than accepting another human being for what they are and being understanding to their views and ideas. Basically, in a nutshell. I feel that if someone finds someone in this world that will love them and take care of them, I could care less if they are pink with purple polka dots. More power to them. There is also the argument that people choose to be gay. I just dont see that. I cant imagine someone making a choice that immediately puts them behind the 8 ball of life so to speak. Maybe something emotional caused them to gay. Maybe it is chromosonal. I just dont know the answer. But until I get to heaven, I am going to choose to let God speak to people about whatever sin they have in their lives. And let them work it with God themselves. That is my 1 religious post of the year and there will be no more. :) Politics? That's a different story. I allow myself about 5 to 10 of those a year.
 
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