Update.
I have setup so the club is square and not shut.
Basically I stop doing all the crazy things just bring the club up with my right elbow pointing down and then just swing, let it drop and shallowing enough. I'm also Let the forearm rotate a little naturally and not laid off or anything. It was great. Somehow I feel like I'm really naturally swinging the elbow plane, but I'm trying to swing on the shoulder plane, makes it steeper, harder to swing, especially when I do the carry. And I also think too much carry can be detrimental to the golf swing. I guess it's just better when you swing naturally with what's compatible with you.
I used to hit the ball great when I didn't have a coach, and i started to take lessons and it went worse each time around. Somehow some where the softdraw pattern and never slice again helped me. Too many mechanical thoughts could be bad too, Sometimes I get really clouded with all these technics. Just swing the god dxxx club.!!!
thanks guys! I'll probably try to see Brian in person eventually, but it's just a bit far from Socal.