You're seeking the holy grail of golf! Very, very difficult. Most people can drive their hands way ahead to stop "flipping", however, when they drive their hands ahead they drive the club into the ground. The ideas about the release go to the heart of your question. A drive/hold release? Not so much. Most drive/holders slam the club in the ground. They can stop the flip, but they screw up their attack angle. This game is hard and I can't imagine trying to figure out impact without an impact measuring device that gives me good feedback about my attack angle.
What you don't want is to try to drive your hands ahead, slam the club in the ground and still flip like this guy: