First understand if you are a patient or a student....patients do not make good students.
If you are a student you will realize there is something new to learn and that you can learn it.
Go about learning it step by step, don't rush. Live the learning process, do not hope that it happens.
Feel free to think on your own and as curtisj76 said...don't be afraid to ask questions. Thinking is important in golf as long as it is moving toward understanding. Understanding minimizes thinking.
To best learn, know how you learn best.
Be honest with yourself and have a good sense of humor...for that is the only thing that makes self-investigation bearable.