My original post wasn't directed to your first post. I didn't even read your first post, but your rant did give me a bit of a headache (I lack mental toughness.)
Haha...
I didn't think it really was but thanks for saying. I just get into this stuff. Not everyone goes about it like I do.
What is he talking about? Confidence! I don't believe that confidence comes from having positive thoughts.
Me neither. I think that's one for the junk pile frankly. (when it goes to Ned Flanders levels) All these "think positive" people have a
certain point......it ain't a cure-all tho....not even close. If used like one all it is- is forced. And again, not anywhere near a cure-all. It's a by-product.
A high handicap golfer will not suddenly begin to lace 1 irons through sports pyschology.
Absolutely true.
Confidence in most things in life: golf, business and women comes from experience and preparation.
As well as knowledge and built skill.
I read this somewhere I figure it fits in well here........I'll toss it out there:
trust-> skill+knowledge+practice-> firm habits-> experience+practice-> confidence-> enthusiasm = positive self-image
A surge of confidence doesn't run through my veins with a 1 iron in my hands because of my mental imagery, it comes from knowing that I have beaten balls 'till blisters have formed on my hands, and from the fact that I have successful hit that shot before. If I have never achieved success and lack the correct skill set to perform a specific task, salvation will not be found through applying some sort of sports pyschology tactic.
You are 110% right man.
What about when the pressure gets to you tho? You've never had that and felt it was beyond your control?
Theoretical scenario: you have a case of "the yips" show up in the last few holes of the US Open. Can you only (solely and nothing else) rely on that built skill and "mental toughness"?
Did someone like Sam Snead just suddenly become a mental wuss? How about Hogan......didn't he lose his putting touch? WTF happened??? No other thing you can do but grind or accept it and "wait it out"?
We had a long thread a few months on grinding. I see grinding as the ultimate display of mental toughness... Rolling with the punches and staying on purpose and waiting out the suckyness until you can perform the mechanics that you have practiced.
It may work well enough for some (some of the time)......I just don't think that is all we are limited to.
This is a very personal thing tho.......I won't tell you how you should play and what does or doesn't work for you.
Golf isn't some esoteric journey--
I had to bust out the dictionary there.
I wouldn't ever say it was.........but I think I know what you're getting at anyhow.
I'll say- it isn't JUST some "esoteric journey."
I know you have to have fun too...........this stuff usually is pretty complicated when you get right down to it tho. I think you have to keep that in mind anytime you try to tell someone "how it is." (if you actually want to look at it from a more serious perspective)
Having said that tho........it doesn't mean AT ALL that the said complicated stuff can't be systematized so it's useable....
Like TGM.
I imagine that Hogan and Snead would have given Dr. Gio an atomic wedgy in the ladies room.
Hey believe me....I think Gio is a dork too man. I haven't learned anything memorable at all from what I've heard from him. To me it seems like the same ol repetitive mainstream recycled stuff. Dunno what makes him the goto guy on all this stuff. But it's like all of it really. (mechanics etc.)
Imagining....positive thinking......self-talk..........blah blah blah. Mental performance wouldn't even be an issue if it were that simple. (and I don't think that's as far as we can go either....i.e. settling on "as much as can be done")
Snead yips....MEH... He has more tourney wins than anyone. G.O.A.T.
Hey man......ask him if it was a "meh" when he got to the point where he felt like he was gonna puke over a 3 footer.
What's G.O.A.T.?