Dale,
Shafts are timing mechanisms. Boo's shafts are Extra Stiff (X) and may be X tipped. Although softer shafts may deflect more after hitting the ground, it is way harder to swing them with the same speed and force. Your shaft doesn't do this because it doesn't have the same release as Boo's. I'm sure BM has some film that looks like this.
Softer shafts require your transition to be more patient and it is harder to rip it.
If your shafts are too stiff for you, even a mild mishit feels like crap.