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Otto, have you always looked at golf this way? Or have you worked on it? My wife tells me I'm obsessed with the game and to just have fun. My problem is that when I'm not playing well I'm not having fun.
Well Curtis, I don't personally know of another person that works as hard at my game as I do (or did) I practice or play every day. My only restriction is that I don't play if it's under 32 degrees since my home course is closed. I have played in hail storms, snowstorms. tornado warnings, and 50mph wind. I submitted over 160 score cards to GHIN for handicapping last year. I am single (I was a single dad) and I my kids are grown and gone. Golf and work are the only things I do.
I get off of work M-F at 5:30pm. I change clothes at work and arrive at the course by 5:45pm. I play or practice until dark. On weekends, I play in the Saturday morning Dogfight that tees off at 7:30. I usually play with my usual foursome Saturday afternoon. If I walk both rounds, I am usually too tired to practice any more so I wobble home. (Walking and carrying 36 holes on a hilly 7400 yard course is tough on an old man) On Sundays, I get to the course by 9:00am. My foursome tees off around 10:30. After the Sunday round I always hit a few balls or work on my short game. Sometimes I will play another 18 by myself Sunday evening after the crowds go home and hit multiple shots into greens and work on my short game on the course. My routine is the same until Daylight Savings Time changes. Once the time changes, I take a longer lunch and work later since it gets dark too early play in the evenings.
I also have a lighted home hitting station with a Truestrike mat and a 10 X 10 X 10 net. This is where I use my video camera and CSwing software to work on the specific stuff Brian is trying to accomplish with my swing. This is also where I film most of my swings to email to Brian before I come down for a lesson, or when I am struggling a bit. I sometimes shoot video on the range when I can get a quiet day. I only use the mat for specific swing issues and video taping.
I have a 12 foot indoor putting green that I practice on when I watch TV. I probably hit putts for 30 minutes or so every day at home, besides the 30 minutes or so every evening on the practice green at my home course.
I eat lunch at my course several days a week. I wolf down a salad then go straight to the putting green or the short game area and work at least 45 minutes. I get an hour and a half for lunch so I have plenty of time.
I worked with my swing coach (pre-Brian) for many years. I drove 12 hours round trip, once a month, for lessons. I would go less in the winter. I would stay overnight and do two full days. This guy has several PGA Tour, Nationwide Tour, and LPGA Tour players in his stable and he isn't cheap. I found out about Brian from a buddy and I finally got a real teacher. I have been with Brian probably a couple of years, maybe a little more. I try and work with him twice or three times a year. I usually spend two or three days when Brian and I work together. Plus, I try and have one day where we go play some golf. If I'm going to travel that far, I want to play a little golf. Besides, Brian doesn't get to play enough...he is always teaching, so I am trying to do my part to keep him relaxed. I would see him more if it wasn't so expensive to travel that far.
I used to play in college. But that was a long time ago. I took 15 years off from golf when my two daughters became incredible soccer players. Both played at the State level with my oldest making it as far as the National Pool in 2000. Both played college soccer on scholarships. So, my golf game fell a distant second place to doing everything I could to make their soccer careers successful. (it was tough and expensive as a single dad, but I wouldn't change a thing)
After my youngest went away to college, I started playing a little golf again. Then a buddy of mine convinced me to play in the City Championship because he didn't want to be out there by himself. Well, the competitive golf bug came back and what we have here is the result of obsessive compulsive golf. So to answer your question, I have just recently changed my attitude.
I finally burned out last month, I was grinding like I never had before. I really wanted to qualify for the State Am this summer. With all the extra work, I just never felt like my game was there. I couldn't shoot the scores I needed to shoot consistently. Something always went wrong. I was incredibly frustrated. I have a couple of faults that I really fight and I just tired of the battle. Golf won.
So.......I called the Texas Golf Association and withdrew from qualifying. When I did, it was such a relief. I put my clubs in the trunk last month and closed the lid.
I am not sure when I am going to get them out. I am sure I will fairly soon. The weather here has been really nice and I need to re-dedicate myself to fixing my game. It's just that I have really enjoyed the complete de-pressurization.
I realize that I am quite obsessive about many things, and more so, golf. I am the kind of person that if I am not achieving at the level I think I should be, I would rather not even bother. I am very demanding of myself and that is not a good trait for golf. I am at the point in my game where I have to make a choice. I am 51 years old and my glory days are pretty much over. I will not be eligible for the Texas Senior State Am until I am 55. I am going to decide in the near future whether to give up on serious competitive golf and just play with buddies or commit to 4 years of full blown labor to see how good I can be as a 55 year old player.
I honestly don't know what I am going to do. I enjoy playing golf with my buddies, and by myself, but I miss that adrenalin of playing competitive golf. I don't know if I can accept playing average golf for the rest of my life, and I'm not sure I have the drive to keep working so hard. Kind of a Catch 22.
I don't have much sage advice for you. You know yourself better than anyone. If you have that inner drive to be a good golfer, you will find a way to feed it. Just be aware that there is a cost for commitment. It's possible that no matter how much energy you spend, or how much you want to reach a particular goal, you might not make it. Just make sure that the journey is as much fun as the goal. If it is, you can't lose.
good luck
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