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But this stuff skips generations. I wonder who in your genetic tree had that gift.
Relative pitch is more important than perfect (absolute) pitch. A person might be able to hear a tone and yell out "c#", but that doesn't mean that they have the ability to put notes together and make music. I spent a lot of time listening to intervals to improve my 'ear', but I'll never have it like the naturals... Oh well...
Golf was created by the gods to spite men. I never seen anything that can totally consume lives like golf.
Stan Stopa has been a good golfer since I was 3 years old.
If you threw a ball at him from 10-yards, he'd hurt himself.
I maintain that Stan is in that category of "early exposure." His dad played, and he lived very close to the course. Because he wasn't that good in other sports, he played golf all day. Still does.
Early exposure.
I came from a family that did not have one musician, and I was beating on pots and pans at two years old. I VIVIDLY remember pulling out the pots and pans and arranging them. I asked my mom 10 years ago when that was, and she said I was 2. "We bought you a set with paper heads for your third birthday so we could hear the TV." Nobody told me how to play, I wasn't playing to music, and I don't give a rats ass what any expert says, that is an INBORN thing. They put on a record when I got that first set, and I played along. I was on TV playing three years later without anyone telling me a lick about what to play except for one $5 lesson.
Talent.
Golf is a funny sport. All the things that make me a good basketballer, and good football player works against me in golf. Except for touch. Which is mostly negated by my very poor nerves.
Lack of talent.
I've played basketball and tennis against David Toms and we are dead even. I am quite sure I'd go five rounds in the draft before him at Norman playground in football.
On the range I can hit it within 10 yards of him, and hit as many shots as he can, maybe more.
He hits it SOooooooo much purer than me, and straighter than me, and pitches it 1000 times better than me, that it is a joke.
On the putting green, I have beat him as many times as he has beaten me.
He can give me 6 a side.
Talent vs. Lack of Talent.
Next.
Sorry if I pissed you off Brian. I hope you know I didn't mean anything by it. I guess I got annoyed when you said that I didn't have it or have never seen it. Sorry again.
I get carried away with debating and then I worry that I offend my friend during the debate. You should take ALOT of the credit for my development though Brian, without you I'd probably be reading Golf Digest and "learning" from good ol' Pete on CBS, hacking away for many years. I don't have to do that because of you![]()
I believe the ability to perform under pressure is a learned behavior. It has a lot to do with previous experiences and as ej20 says, how a person is raised. An athlete can even learn to control his/her emotions through sports psychology techniques. Research has shown that the human brain cannot tell the difference between an imagined situation and a real situation. So, if you can practice and feel the same type pressure you will be under, then when the competition time comes you've already performed at that level and have the confidence that you will again. The hard part is to forget the "bad" experiences.
There's that story of the POW who would work on his golf swing and play golf in his head to keep his mind off the torture of being a prisoner of war. When he was finally back home, he was now a scratch golfer. Don't know if it is really true or not, but it sure makes for a good story.