I was raised by a very loving, but oft-demanding father who, because I worked for and with him after college, still exerted a good bit of control over my life. I silently rebelled and resented what I thought was his heavy-handedness, but now as a successful 41 year old businessman and father of 3, I often draw upon "what would daddy do" as a guide to when in doubt. there is a passage a son goes through with such a father, that as he matures and matches up to the father, conflict arises. Marriage and other relationships, plus the ravages of time on the fathers health, can cause further separation. But I see today in my dad the wisdom I could never see back then.
Forget Butch Harmon, fiance, whoever. go back to Earl and say these painful words, "Dad, I have gotten off track. What should I do?"