On "both-ways responsibility"
bpgs1 said:
I have to agree with Perfect Impact on this one. There needs to be a mutual "meeting of the minds" for a successful learning outcome to occur. The responsibility goes both ways. The teacher needs to have the correct knowledge and the ability to communicate it clearly in a manner that the student can understand. And the patience to keep trying different ways to communicate the message until the student "gets it". That is real learning. The student must meet the teacher or lesson environment with an open, inquiring mind and willing to make the changes that the teacher is recommending. The student has to really want to learn. If both criteria are met - teacher and student - the student will learn.
For the student to take that "learning" to the level of physical skill acquistiion takes intelligent practice - and often a lot of it. If the student is unwilling to do the practice - in spite of the teachers advice to do so - then the student will fail to acquire real skill. No teacher or personal trainer can MAKE anyone do anything. You have to want it and then put forth the effort.
Years ago, I was at a party with the top Yoga teacher in Portland. She has many studios and is extremely successful at her profession. This very same discussion came up, all of her novice Yoga instructors had this kind of New Age belief that the burden of resposibility was 100% on the teachers shoulders. We both disagreed strongly - from long experience. And Brian's reference to The Karate Kid movie - probably the worst example of Asian martial arts teaching/learning philosophy that you could possibly imagine - has it exactly backwards. In that tradition, which I have been a part of for over 40 years, the idea is that the student must rise to the level of the teacher and prove to the teacher that he is truly motivated to learn from the teacher. There are plenty of bad students in the martial arts tradition but only a few good teachers. Western New Age naivete should never be confused with that tradition - although Hollywood loves to do so!
Jim Waldron
If "both-ways responsibility" exists. No problem. If not we need to establish it. If that is not possible we are not teaching at all.
It
can be done. Not in every case. But it
can be done.
As an example there is a passage in "Zen Golf" by Joseph Parent where a buddhist monk is about to give a lesson to someone. Mr Someone starts off by telling the monk that he's read every single book, do some namedropping re other teachers/monks he's met, that there's this and that and that he is looking for a specific advice on how to approach a certain concept that he has identified as
his problem. The monk starts to pour Mr Someone tea. When the cup is full the tea starts flooding the table and swamping the carpet. The monk continues to pour. Then Mr Someone stops talking and says:
- Hey, the cup is already full.
The monk says:
- Just as this cup is full you have so many preconceptions about this session that it will be impossible to teach you anything,
"Empty your cup"
The monk illustrated was what happening. He made the student get it. Just as a great techer will. Use a trick or a story (but forget about name-droppning or brand names). As long as the message gets through. Why not demonstrate that you are able to do it. (As I recall Brian once used
be able to perform what he teaches as a criteria for a good teacher. Great. Works for me. It is one of several possible options to make the student listen).
This is not a Hollywood story, and it is fair to say that a master teacher will look for signs of a student having already decided what he need to learn and thus refuse any other information being transferred to him.
This is also my personal criteria for determining a good teacher from an average one. The good teacher will quickly make me prepared to forget about my particular ideas on the given subject and make me listen to what he thinks is best for me. Or if you like: The area where the teacher thinks he'd be able to deliver the most value during the time frame available. He'll start "delivering tea" only when my cup is empty, cleaned, polished and shining.
The average teacher will listen intently to what I perceive as being my problem and "try to help" fixing what I already knew needed to be fixed. And pour his tea in a dirty cup.
The potential for transferring value is obvious.
To summarize the master teacher will make sure that the student is in
learning mode. He can use any means to do that, as long as the student starts listening. If the teacher is not able to do that he is not yet a master or has ended up with the 1-5% of the population of students that will effectively waste time for both parties.
So what would the master do when the "impossible case" show up?
An alternative would be:
- Well you've paid me do teach you something I do not deliver. I am sorry but you came to the wrong place. You are effectively trying to buy drugs at the police station.
A refund would be the ultimare, but since bills need to be payed it is not an option in most cases. But for every no-teach & no-refund session the master teacher status will be postponed.