You need to feel like the club--especially the club head--is falling behind and away from you until about half way down in the downswing. Then bring the clubhead around to the ball by pulling your hands in. It is the wierdest feeling for us who are too steep out of transition and it feels like it takes forever to get the club around to impact.
Kevin or Lindsey said a while ago that the cub swing should feel circular. Not just circular up and down but also somewhat around your body. When you get the more correct forces working on the club, the body pivot really changes for the better.
You're great at describing these things spk.