Rose Gardens...
I find your top 3 list interesting as a teacher:
1) Be the best.
2) Help people (curious, why isn't this first?)
3) Get good information out there.
The reason that "help people" isn't first is pretty simple, as a teacher, you have to have good material to teach someone you want to help, you need to know how to get that information across to a myriad of different students, and you need to be able to do it in a way to not make the student worse long term.
In my case, I wouldn't spend as NEARLY as much time—way more than any instructor I have ever know—researching, digging, discussing outside of any website, traveling, spending money on gear, etc, if I didn't want to be the best.
That's just me.
It would be VERY EASY to teach some safe stuff, draw lines, build a building near my home, sit in some a/c, and make enough money.
I'd rather sell Allstate.
Since we're not being delicate, or nice. Why haven't I gotten any better since having lessons with Brian, 4 Hrs instruction and a round of golf. ($800 later) OR 3 lessons with Kevin ($300)?
Because as teachers, we have failed to do our job properly for you so far.
After teaching for 28 years, I can truthful say that a vast majority of students improved short-term and long-term working with me.
But that's not 100%, nowhere near.
I watched a video the other day of a some teachers that put the blame on the student for not continuing to improve.
To me, that's is a royal copout.
Every single student that has taken lessons from me, and not gotten their money's worth, or gotten better (two different things), did so because I made a mistake somewhere.
I prescribed the wrong pattern, or changed the one they had when I shouldn't have. Or, I gave out a drill that didn't do what it was supposed to do. Or any number of things, like I was too lenient or not lenient enough.
Totally on me.
So what do I do about it?
Well in your case, or anyone's case, if they are not happy, I will be happy to teach them on the house to fix whatever needs to for them to be satisfied.
Or if you would rather a refund, we can do that as well.
When I sub-contracted my house, I had a lot of subs to deal with. More than half had to come out and rectify their work to my satisfaction.
They did, and they all fixed their mistakes or shortcomings.
I'd like the chance to so the same.
...(I) have no idea what to do with the swing that I have been taught. Why have I left lessons with you guys, practiced my ASS off for a couple of months on the things you gave me, and the swing hasn't gotten any better? So, What does a guy like me, someone who REALLY wants to play well and practices his butt off, and isn't getting any better with the swing?
Quite simply, 90% of the time that means you are working on the wrong things, or working on the right things the wrong way.
That is the 90% we are almost completely responsible for.
I say almost completely, because without seeing a golf swing fairly often, they have a way of going in some crazy directions.
Sometimes, that is not really the teacher's fault.
The best successes I have had as a teacher was with students I saw very often. Sometimes that it just not possible for the student to have me there all the time.
I have always said teaching golf is more like gardening than anything else. And when the weeds grow in, the gardener can pretty much fix it in a jiffy. If he is there the day it happens or soon after.
10% of the time, golfers don't get better even when they are working on the right things the right way.
There is a lot of that on the PGA TOUR. Sometimes the talent+time+physicality+equipment+instruction+practice+athleticism can all be focused in the right direction, and maybe just temporarily maxed out.
In your case VJ, you are a big string guy, with a lot of talent. You have practiced you way to being in the 1 percentile for all adult golfers who have played golf for less than two years.
You deserve a lot of credit for that.
You can certainly reach your goals, but after your rapid improvement, their is sure to be some leveling off, and some down turns.
Mastery in any endeavor certainly follows this process 99% of the time.
That is in NO WAY absolving me of not helping you enough for you satisfaction.
And my offers stand.
I am very sorry you are disappointed in my instruction so far, and that Kevin's has not helped as much as you'd like as well.