I've watched the first part of the interview so far.
Perhaps I take the word 'friend' too seriously or have some unrealistic thoughts on what an instructor should be and should do.
In the interview, Gray asks Haney if this sex scandal had never happened would he still be Tiger's coach?
Haney states that if the sex scandal had never occured, Tiger would likely be playing much better. And if so, he'd still likely be his coach.
Y'know, I've had friends tell me that I was dead wrong and vice versa. I've had friends that have said something I didn't like and that caused some friction at the end of the day and vice versa. But, when all is said and done, I've always looked at it like those are the types of friends I want and I'm the type of friend they want and having a 'yes man' really isn't having a friend.
I've also worked with a lot of instructors. The majority of them were good people, but IMO the majority of them were mediocre or worse instructors. Still learned things from them, but now I know things about the swing and putting that are stone cold facts and their instruction didn't jive well with that.
Still, EVERY SINGLE instructor I've ever worked with kind of had the attitude that if we couldn't get it right, they wanted the chance to work on it again until we get it right. The problem wasn't their will or attitude, just their instruction could be lacking or flawed.
So, here we have Haney saying that he quit Tiger and if Tiger was playing well, he'd still be his instructor....but since he's not playing well, he quits on him.
I guess I don't get it.
I guess I wouldn't call somebody like that my friend. And I certainly wouldn't want him as my instructor.
As a golfer who takes lessons, I want to get better and I want issues/problems fixed.
I understand that it's not always going to be smooth sailing. But, shouldn't the instructor be there (provided you are willing to compensate them for their time)?
Am I crazy for not understanding why Haney isn't being skewered for bailing on his friend/student?
3JACK