Golf rehab for the inner poor sportsman began.
Firstly, I explained to him that one of the aspects of golf that made it so great and exciting was the level of uncertainty. Even if we could guarantee a certain outcome, it would be extremely boring, just like watching a movie and already knowing how it ends. But we can't guarantee an outcome anyway....at least not a successful outcome. We were doing a pretty good job of creating a bad outcome with his meddling. So, I told him to sit back during the stroke and wonder about the outcome, but not to try to influence it.
Secondly, I wanted to give him job, because he is utterly incapable of doing nothing. I told him, "I do actually need your help. I need to know exactly what happened during the stroke and exactly where the ball went compared to what I thought would happen. I need you to be totally engrossed in it. You must be an extremely attentive observerer but it must be passive observation, not active. Get a clip board and take notes as you watch and then give me a report afterwards. This is a very important task because having a good feedback mechanism is critical for performance improvement."
Then he said, "Well, I think I can do that, but what if I see something bad happening before my very eyes? let me at least throw you a warning."
Me: "Giving me a warning will degrade your ability to observe my natural instinct, AND it will disrupt my natural instinct. How can you give me accurate feedback about my performance if you change my performance mid-stream?"
He was beginning to see the insanity of our former approach, that we were essentially working at cross purposes, and that my natural instinct to roll the ball down my intended line could only be improved if it was allowed to be judged on its own merits.
Then he actually said something surprisingly on-point: "But, wait a sec, I'm using the same eyes you are. How can I tell exactly what the ball is doing for it's entire roll if you keep your eyes pointed down at the turf after you've struck the ball? I can't give you a complete appraisal of what's really happening...and it makes me anxious when the ball disappears like that."
to be continued...
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Virtuoso, this is awesome! Is this how you work(ed) with the full swing "poor sportsman" too?
Hand also raised. I second this question. My putting poor sportsman is irritating at times, but my full swing poor sportsman is a downright evil sonofagun.
Well, these are all my personal experiences so your mileage will vary. What I'm talking about ultimately does apply to every shot I make while playing golf--not just putting. But, the over-arching theme is that you must know why you play golf if you want to understand how to play golf.
Could I be so bold as to suggest a new avatar for you, Virtuoso?
Great stuff.
ha ha, thanks Mike....but even as "zen" as that guy looks, he is not as much of a virtuoso as the guy that's already in my avatar:
"I felt as though I was driving in a tunnel. The whole circuit became a tunnel... I had reached such a high level of concentration that it was as if the car and I had become one. Together we were at the maximum. I was giving the car everything - and vice versa."
Ayrton Senna
His movie is on my list while I'm convalescing from shoulders surgery. I'm sure you've seen it, what did you think?
Well, these are all my personal experiences so your mileage will vary. What I'm talking about ultimately does apply to every shot I make while playing golf--not just putting. But, the over-arching theme is that you must know why you play golf if you want to understand how to play golf.
I play golf because it satisfies my "hunter-gatherer" need to see an untethered projectile arching through the air at a target that it will hit sucessfully. My entire game (ie. attitude on the course) goes as my ballstriking goes. I'm a good putter, if not a great green-reader. I have a nice shortgame, as long as I don't have to use it to get up and down for bogey multiple times on the front 9. My success at these aspects of the game is more predicated on my attitude than my skill level. If I'm mentally engaged, the skill level is there. That engagement is tied purely to my ballstriking.
I play to watch the ball come down from the clouds on the general line I want, with the general curvature I want, and land in the general area I want. 95% of my poor full swings are directly related to my inner poor sportsman telling me that I have picked the wrong club or the wrong shot to play. The problem is, the insolent goon won't tell me which one is the right shot or club to hit.
How can I use that information to better understand how to play golf, and ultimatly get more enjoyment out of golf?
Ok, i think a lot of scratch golfers feel the same way you do. Let's delve further into your psyche. Answer the following question:
If given the choice in a casual round, which would you prefer?
A. A well struck middle iron with the right trajectory and curve, finishing at 8 feet, which you will 3-putt.
B. A reasonably well stuck shot, maybe a little thin, that ends at 15 feet, that you will lip out and tap in for par.
C. Middle iron struck fat, ball goes in bunker short, hole out bunker shot for birdie.
Same question for a tournament round, A, B, or C?